…it would be easy for me to
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board up my emotional doors and windows;
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adopt a siege mentality;
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retreat to the Island of Donna, population: one;
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barricade myself in the Obsessional, where I ponder the same thoughts/fears/resentments over and over until they wear a groove in my brain and poison my world from the inside out;
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feel too overwhelmed and hopeless to do anything;
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get so obsessed with protecting myself I forget other people are in the same boat–or worse–and there might be something I can do to help;
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forget that there’s powerful magic in caring, sharing, helping, listening, and even the simplest acts of kindness
But just because it’s easy to do, doesn’t mean I have to do it.
Instead of letting times like these make me isolate myself in fear, distrust, and resentment, I can choose to…well, Dave says it better than I can: